Leave time to unwind
Try to leave at least an hour to unwind before you go to bed. Try to do any activity, such as reading, watching television, listening to music or talking, before you go to bed. When it is time for bed try not to think too much about the day or your plans for tomorrow. Try to set aside time earlier in the evening to think about any issues.
It may be helpful to write down any worries or concerns during this time and then plan how you’ll deal with them at a later date. There isn’t anything wrong with thinking about the things going on in your life and trying to solve problems, but try to put any concerns or negative thoughts to one side before you go to bed.
Go to bed only when sleepy
First, it’s important to be aware of the difference between being tired and being sleepy:
- Tiredness is a feeling of exhaustion – this does not always involve the need to sleep
- Sleepiness means being ready to fall asleep. Signs of sleepiness may include yawning, having ‘heavy’ eyelids or sore eyes, or even feeling a little unsteady.
Waiting to be sleepy before going to bed can help you fall asleep faster. Going to bed too early can give you time to worry (about problems or being unable to fall asleep) and that, of course, can keep you awake.
If you don’t fall asleep, try to get up. Lying in bed trying to get to sleep can make you feel anxious or frustrated. So, try getting up after about 20 minutes, go to another room and do something quiet and calm, such as reading. If you own a Theraposture adjustable bed or Rotoflex, change your position in bed or use the powered functionality to exit the bed in a controlled and relaxed manner.
Go back to bed only when you feel sleepy. Try not to leave your bedroom only to fall asleep in a chair or on the sofa as this doesn’t help to build the link between your bed and sleep. A Theraposture bed will make getting in and out easier so the temptation to try and sleep in a chair can be avoided.
You may have to get up several times during the night if you can’t fall asleep at bedtime or you wake during the night and can’t get back to sleep. This can be difficult at first, but if you keep trying with this method your mind will soon link your bed and bedroom with getting to sleep quickly.
One common problem is going back to bed too soon after getting up. Some people think that if you stay up too long, you will never get back to sleep. In fact, the opposite is true: the longer you stay up, the quicker you fall asleep when you go back to bed.
You may not feel like leaving the comfort of your bed, particularly if you think you could be cold or bored while waiting to get sleepy.
If this is the case, try keeping a warm blanket or dressing gown near your bed, have a comfortable place to sit in the house and keep things to do there. These shouldn’t be so interesting that your mind becomes too active, but not so boring that you have no motivation to get up.
Some things you can try if you need to get up are:
- watching television
- listening to the radio
- doing a crossword puzzle
Things to avoid:
- doing housework or cleaning
- taking a walk or exercising
- working on a computer or tablet
- relaxing on the bed or in a chair
Use an alarm clock
Set an alarm clock and if you are able to, get out of bed at roughly the same time every morning. Do this if it’s a weekday or the weekend. It will help reset your body clock and restore your sleep–wake pattern.
It’s common to ‘lie in’ to make up for lost sleep. This can help in the short term, but it’s best to stick to a regular routine.
Try not to nap during the day
For many people, napping during the day affects their quality of night-time sleep, and reduces the amount of deep sleep they get. Some people with Parkinson’s find they need a nap during the day.
Certain medication, for example, can make people very sleepy. If this is the case, try to nap for a short time only, for around 20 minutes. This should not have too much of an impact on your night-time sleep. However comfortable your Theraposture bed is, set an alarm clock to wake you after 20 minutes if you’re worried you’ll sleep for longer!